It is not unfamiliar, though thankfully rare, when a husband and father must make a soul-crushing decision. Something went wrong during labor, and doctors can either save mom or baby but not both. To intensify this bleak reality, doctors leave the decision in the hands of the husband/father. Who does he save? The woman to whom he promised love and fidelity, or the child created as a product of their love? As if to rub salt in his mortal wound, he will have no shortage of critics. If he chooses to save his wife, many will say he should have saved baby (“Isn’t the highest act of love a mother giving her life so her child may live?”). It would be equally true if he saves the baby (“They could have just tried for another child.”) If he is a religious man and his friends are theological nitwits, he will hear abusive voices telling him he should have prayed more and just believed that God could have saved them both....